Lolita Carrico
#angerchallenge Ok, so it still infuriates me that my ex-husband just up and disappeared 3 years ago without a word to his (our) sons. Our oldest turned 18 earlier this month, and even though I have no idea if he still checks his email or honestly is even alive, I emailed my ex to let him know that our son - who is now a man - has been through the ringer and had a really rough patch after the unexpected disappearance but now is on the right path and doing amazingly well. I sent him some recent photos of both of the boys. No clue if he got them. But I needed to do that to release my anger. I think it helped me - yes, I am angry that my ex-husband / my sons' dad did this to them AND left me to deal with the turmoil that came with it, but it was therapeutic to tell him - even if he will never see it - that we got through it and are doing ok, even after he threw the biggest wrench ever into our lives.
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