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Ebony Ward

Female. Lives in  Georgia,  United States. Born on November 15
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I am an Entrepreneur, I love helping people. I am a mother of 3 beautiful girls. I love to travel, I...View more
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Ebony Ward
Where can I find Jamaican recipes from? I am Jamaican can only make curry chicken. I need to know more.
Romany Malco
Very smart place to post this question #TheDailyDish is the shiznit!
Romany Malco
Very smart place to post this question #TheDailyDish is the shiznit!
Ebony Ward
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Ebony Ward
So I have an update to my last post about the girl that stayed with me. She called me and asked me did i have an issue with her. I was real honest and explained what my issues are with her. I tried to...View more
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Pay Kolmüs
My advice is, to let things go. She apologized (genuinely), you forgave her. Let it go. Don't try to call people on her, or keep involved in this negative situation. From what you've posted, the daughter is older. It's not a helpless infant. You have warned the daughter and talked to the mother. Your job is done. Keep praying for them but let this situation go, for your own health.
Romany Malco
It sounds as if you've forced her to take a good look at herself. At this point you have to ask yourself how much more energy do you want to pour into that situation and what's it worth to you? What will be the benefits and who will be the benefactor(s)? I agree with Pay, "Your job is done."
Ebony Ward
I didnt force her. She asked me what my problem was with her and I was able to tell her. She was very convicted at what she did and wanted to make things right. So I explained to her. She really didnt understand how serious it is. I left it alone. You know when you feel guilty sometimes some people not all will find ways to make it right. We have to deal with each other on a daily basis. It was good that she wanted to make sure I had no problems with her.
Katrina Morris
Ditto on the comments above. I think it's great you were honest with her and that you got an honest apology. That's actually huge. People don't go from being screwed up to being healthy overnight. There are all sorts of entrenched brain pathways that kick in. I say let it go, but if you have the energy, maybe just be her someone she can talk to.
Ebony Ward
Im done and been done with it. She needed closure herself. She asked me. so I told her. We have to work together so it was actually best that she wanted to make things right.
Katrina Morris
That's awesome. Closure is a beautiful thing.
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Pay Kolmüs
My advice is, to let things go. She apologized (genuinely), you forgave her. Let it go. Don't try to call people on her, or keep involved in this negative situation. From what you've posted, the daughter is older. It's not a helpless infant. You have warned the daughter and talked to the mother. You...View more
Romany Malco
It sounds as if you've forced her to take a good look at herself. At this point you have to ask yourself how much more energy do you want to pour into that situation and what's it worth to you? What will be the benefits and who will be the benefactor(s)? I agree with Pay, "Your job is done."
Ebony Ward
I didnt force her. She asked me what my problem was with her and I was able to tell her. She was very convicted at what she did and wanted to make things right. So I explained to her. She really didnt understand how serious it is. I left it alone. You know when you feel guilty sometimes some people...View more
Katrina Morris
Ditto on the comments above. I think it's great you were honest with her and that you got an honest apology. That's actually huge. People don't go from being screwed up to being healthy overnight. There are all sorts of entrenched brain pathways that kick in. I say let it go, but if you have the ene...View more
Ebony Ward
Im done and been done with it. She needed closure herself. She asked me. so I told her. We have to work together so it was actually best that she wanted to make things right.
Katrina Morris
That's awesome. Closure is a beautiful thing.
Ebony Ward
so here is my problem. I had a woman that I know stay in my house. I did that because she has a daughter and she had no place to go. She was very disrespectful, her daughter was disrespectful, then on...View more
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Romany Malco
This is a tough one and I’ve been there . But please consider in the end you did right by the child. And despite her denial you have made the mother aware that her treatment of the child is not acceptable. You also prevented the child from having to sleep on the street or in a car with her an abusive mom. So despite their lack of gratitude you've helped a child in numerous ways. As for the mother, her ignorance is far beyond the field of logic and for that alone forgiveness is justified. However, you should deal with her accordingly in the future.
Ebony Ward
it goes deeper than that. the child really needs help psychologically and so does the mother. the mother will get into alot of trouble if the child talks and her daughter will talk. I can see it but the mother cant.
Katrina Morris
That has to be beyond frustrating. It was very kind of you to take them in. As Eckardt Tolle says, you can't blame someone for their lack of awareness. I have a few friends who are pretty dysfunctional, but I know I can't help them, no matter how much I try. They have to see it themselves. Also, I know that if they COULD do better they would. No one wants to live in pain. Sometimes that's all the person knows though and they can't find their way out.
Pay Kolmüs
I have been in a similar situation about 15 years ago. Also took in a mother and child (she was only 3 though) and first didn't see how i was taken advantage from. When they left, the mom had stolen from me and left me with thousands of euro's in bills. I was angry for a long time. In the end, it comes down to this. You did the right thing by taking them in, you pointed the wrong doings out. It's all you can do. You can't help people that don't want to help themselves. Also, obviously the daughter has learned behaviour from her mom as well. As much as you want to help both of them, in the end you can't do more than you already did. It is not your child and if the mother doesn't see the light, the only help you can provide is pray for both of them. Forgive them for they know no better. Try to ease your mind because you did all you can. Letting things go, in order to look out for your own peace is important as well as saving other people.
Ebony Ward
and this very thing was told to me. to look out for myself. wow
Ron Junior
Your forgiving-ness is for you not her. Sometimes you will have to forgive when no apology is uttered. Your purpose was served.
Romany Malco
On the money right there!
Ebony Ward
ohh I do know that. thank you
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Romany Malco
This is a tough one and I’ve been there . But please consider in the end you did right by the child. And despite her denial you have made the mother aware that her treatment of the child is not acceptable. You also prevented the child from having to sleep on the street or in a car with her an abusi...View more
Ebony Ward
it goes deeper than that. the child really needs help psychologically and so does the mother. the mother will get into alot of trouble if the child talks and her daughter will talk. I can see it but the mother cant.
Katrina Morris
That has to be beyond frustrating. It was very kind of you to take them in. As Eckardt Tolle says, you can't blame someone for their lack of awareness. I have a few friends who are pretty dysfunctional, but I know I can't help them, no matter how much I try. They have to see it themselves. Also, I k...View more
Pay Kolmüs
I have been in a similar situation about 15 years ago. Also took in a mother and child (she was only 3 though) and first didn't see how i was taken advantage from. When they left, the mom had stolen from me and left me with thousands of euro's in bills. I was angry for a long time. In the end, it co...View more
Ebony Ward
and this very thing was told to me. to look out for myself. wow
Ron Junior
Your forgiving-ness is for you not her. Sometimes you will have to forgive when no apology is uttered. Your purpose was served.
Romany Malco
On the money right there!
Ebony Ward
ohh I do know that. thank you
Ebony Ward
Romany Malco guess what, I got a call on my office phone by a woman asking for you. I have never laughed so hard after getting off the phone. She was serious about talking to you.
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Romany Malco
First question is how does someone seeking to reach ME end up with YOUR phone number? I guess they saw your market place listing and thought it was mine.
Ebony Ward
It was the day we talked on facebook live. we talked about my business. and my number was given out. I tried not to laugh.
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Romany Malco
First question is how does someone seeking to reach ME end up with YOUR phone number? I guess they saw your market place listing and thought it was mine.
Ebony Ward
It was the day we talked on facebook live. we talked about my business. and my number was given out. I tried not to laugh.
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Pollyanna
Amen!!!! Some of us don't want to put in the work!
Romany Malco
Said a mouthful right there. It surprises me how few of us are not willing to temporarily leave our comfort zones for something that could change our lives for an eternity.
Ebony Ward
this is where i am now. coming out of my comfort zone. being a quiet person and shy has caused me to miss out because of being scared to step out.
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Pollyanna
Amen!!!! Some of us don't want to put in the work!
Romany Malco
Said a mouthful right there. It surprises me how few of us are not willing to temporarily leave our comfort zones for something that could change our lives for an eternity.
Ebony Ward
this is where i am now. coming out of my comfort zone. being a quiet person and shy has caused me to miss out because of being scared to step out.
Ebony Ward
Romany Malco
I'm proud of you! This is HUGE and I don't know how much you've worked on forgiving those who abused you, but I hope you are able to do so. I hope you are able to let go of any resentment towards them. It will only help you to soar even higher! Excellent work! 🙌🙌🙌
Ebony Ward
I have forgiven them. its crazy because i see them all the time. they are family.
Pollyanna
There was a "Hey" posted here earlier. That was Tech support. Sorry about that.
Romany Malco
I'm proud of you! This is HUGE and I don't know how much you've worked on forgiving those who abused you, but I hope you are able to do so. I hope you are able to let go of any resentment towards them. It will only help you to soar even higher! Excellent work! ߙ̰ߙ̰ߙ
Ebony Ward
I have forgiven them. its crazy because i see them all the time. they are family.
Pollyanna
There was a "Hey" posted here earlier. That was Tech support. Sorry about that.
Ebony Ward
Thank you for inviting me. I can see people getting the help they need to heal from their issues. There is a peaceful atmosphere. No judgement zone. Romany you started something that will continue to ...View more
Pollyanna
I agree! Most posts in this platform are so practical and advanced. Not just the typical, generic, "I am powerful. I am strong. Blah, blah, blah." posts that you usually see on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. ❤️❤️❤️
Romany Malco
That's the goal Pollyanna! Hopefully this site becomes a database of practical yet insightful solutions to life's biggest and smallest challenges. Your help here is sooooooo appreciated. Couldn't have done it without you and now we're doing it!!! 🙏🙏🙏
Romany Malco
I appreciate you being here. I'm loving it. So many of these posts have made their way into my conversation with friends, family and loved ones. Thank YOU! 🙏❤️🙏
Ebony Ward
Awww you are welcome. You have no idea what you atarted. Thats why so many people hace ao much respect for you. You are the only person that is in tune with your fans. The live for people is what did it.
Romany Malco
Your words of encouragement will go a long way! 🙏
Pollyanna
I agree! Most posts in this platform are so practical and advanced. Not just the typical, generic, "I am powerful. I am strong. Blah, blah, blah." posts that you usually see on Facebook, Twitter and Instagram. ❤️❤️❤️
Romany Malco
That's the goal Pollyanna! Hopefully this site becomes a database of practical yet insightful solutions to life's biggest and smallest challenges. Your help here is sooooooo appreciated. Couldn't have done it without you and now we're doing it!!! ߙϰߙϰߙ
Romany Malco
I appreciate you being here. I'm loving it. So many of these posts have made their way into my conversation with friends, family and loved ones. Thank YOU! ߙϢݤ️ߙ
Ebony Ward
Awww you are welcome. You have no idea what you atarted. Thats why so many people hace ao much respect for you. You are the only person that is in tune with your fans. The live for people is what did it.
Romany Malco
Your words of encouragement will go a long way! 🙏
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